ade ke patut..

haha..
ade ke patut wish new year je...
selamat hari rye aidiladha nyer mane?
ASTAFIRGHULLAHALAZIIM..

Selamat Hari Raya Aidiladha ye sumer..

coming in the new year~~

it's been a long time since i put an entry on to my blog..been busy..the posponed exam..assignments..work..just so many things to do..and when im finally free..im off to belgium, germany and holland tonight..early morning to be exact..i'll be back just in time for hari raya haji..and i guess my next entry will be in the new year..

p/s: photos of the nicest ppl in my work place will be uploaded when im back from hols..

c ya!! dont wanna be ya!!

oh yeah..

Happy New Year!!

home is where my heart is right now..

I hardly cry..
sad movies never make me cry..
but today, i cried..
i just cried that it lasted for 40 minutes..

all the emotions have been boiling up inside of me..
waiting for the time to explode..
and today, it exploded..
in streams of tears..
stream after stream..

why?
selfishness..
losing trust..
home..
wanting to be home..
lonely..
i'm missing mama..
i'm missing ayah..
wanting to be home..
in the arms of mama and ayah..
and..
i think..

i miss him.

she~

..the heart of a woman is damn unique..

she

takes rejections

heals sorrow

builds confidence

and

allocates spaces for new hope

..she is a kind of strong..

thanks, Soya!!

taGGed by aNa~10 sexiest peopLe..

this is my third time being tagged and the tagged topic is 10 sexiest people on earth..this is the list in no particular order..

David Beckham - i'm sure everyone must have guessed that this person is a MUST on the list..no justification needed..ex-Man U player, ex-England captain and now playing for Real Madrid..he is sexy being the way he is..no one can deny that..with or without shirt..sarong or pants..football jersey or tux..being bald or having his hair tied up..the money he makes..those cars he drives..and the list goes on..

Ralph Fiennes - yes, he is that guy in Maid in Manhattan..i fell in love with him straight..he is sexy when the lines on his face crinkle up as he talks or laughs or smiles..and if u haven't watched the movie..this is the time..and he's the one u should kept ur eyes on..
Fabio Cannavaro - who agrees that he is one of the most sexiest man alive? haha..so sexy..he was being appointed the Italian team captain since 1997..even before beckham..and he is STILL the captain..unlike beckham who quits after england failed to move on..ohh..nothing is sexier than cannavaro chasing a ball across the field in that tight blue Italy football jersey with sweat running down the bald head of his..

Sean Connery - yeah Ana, i agree with u..he is one of the older men who are sexy despite their age..can't reason anymore..
Shayne Ward - he has the look, he has the voice and he has the charm to make girls screaming fanatically at him..at the age of 21, he has won the X-Factor UK 2005.. if u have the time, watch the episodes of xfactor on youtube and u'll realise he's the winner since the first day..

Wade Robson - if u wondering who this person might be..he's the one who coreographed most of nsync's moves..he even has his on show on MTV called the Wade Robson Show where he searches for new talents for the dancing industry..he's hot when he grooves to the music..
Hans Isaac - the only Malaysian in the list..the ability to converse in the Malay Language flawlessly and like a Malay..he looks like a Malay even though he's not..the way he brought all his characters on screen, he looks so good that u want to have a man like him in ur life..and he is so goooooooooddddd in kutub utara kutub selatan..so charming...

Won Bin - the only Korean on the list..he's acted in autumn in my heart, friends, brotherhood and tae guk gi..he is sexy in autumn in my heart..driving a BMW and then have to fight with his best friend to win the love of his life..

Nigel Baker - one of the judges in American Next Top Model and also a professional photographer..why is he sexy? bald..dark skin..sumtimes he has the few-days-old stuble on his face..and the accent..ohhh.. i love his accent..
The Pussycat Dolls - oppss...this makes 15 sexiest people..haha..they are the sexies ladies around..and even their songs sound sexy like they are..

there u go..the 10..ohh no..the 15 most sexiest people on earth..anyone wanna add to that?

~loVe..from the eyes of children~

I received this in an email from my dearie sister. Cant help but to share this.

What does Love mean?

A group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 to 8year-olds, "What does love mean?" The answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined. See what you think:

"When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too.That's love." Rebecca- age 8

"When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You just know that your name is safe in their mouth." Billy - age 4

"Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other."Karl - age 5

"Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you anyof theirs." Chrissy - age 6

"Love is what makes you smile when you're tired." Terri - age 4

"Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK." Danny - age 7

"Love is when you kiss all the time.Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more. My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss"Emily - age 8

"Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen." Bobby - age 7(Wow!)-->Love this one..

"If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate," Nikka - age 6

"Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday."Noelle - age 7

"Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well." Tommy - age 6

"During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling. He was the only one doing that. I wasn't scared anymore." Cindy - age 8

"My mommy loves me more than anybody .You don't see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night." Clare - age 6

"Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken." Elaine-age 5"

Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford." Chris -age 7

"Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day." Mary Ann - age 4"

I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones." Lauren - age 4

"When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you." Karen - age 7-->cute!!

"Love is when Mommy sees Daddy on the toilet and she doesn't think it's gross." Mark - age 6

"You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget." Jessica - age 8

And the final one -- Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once talked about a contest he was asked to judge.The purpose of the contest was to find the most caring child. The winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife. Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman's yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there. When his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said, "Nothing, I just helped him cry"

..and his brown eyes tells his soul..

Remember the first day when I saw your face
Remember the first day when you smiled at me
You stepped to me and you said to me
I was the woman you dreamed about

Remember the first day when you called my house
Remember the first day when you took me out
We had butterflies although we tried to hide
And we both had a beautiful night

The way we held each others hand
The way we talked the way we laughed
It felt so good to find true love
I knew right then and there you were the one

I know that he loves me cause he told me so
I know that he loves me cause his feelings show
When he stares at me you see he cares for me
You see how he is so deep in love
I know that he loves me cause its obvious
I know that he loves me cause it's me he trusts
And he's missing me if he's not kissing me
And when he looks at me his brown eyes tells his soul

Remember the first day, the first day we kissed
Remember the first day we had an argument
We apologized and then we compromised
And we haven't argued since

Remember the first day we stopped playing games
Remember the first day you fell in love with me
It felt so good for you to say those words
Cause I felt the same way too

The way we held each others hand
The way we talked the way we laughed
It felt so good to fall in love
And I knew right then and there you were the one

I know that he loves me cause he told me so
I know that he loves me cause his feelings show
When he stares at me you see he cares for me
You see how he is so deep in love
I know that he loves me cause its obvious
I know that he loves me cause it's me he trusts
And he's missing me if he's not kissing me
And when he looks at me his brown eyes tells his soul

I'm so happy so happy that you're in my life
And baby now that you're a part of me
You showed me
Showed me the true meaning of love
And i know he loves me

I know that he loves me cause he told me so
I know that he loves me cause his feelings show
When he stares at me you see he cares for me
You see how he is so deep in love
I know that he loves me cause its obvious
I know that he loves me cause it's me he trusts
And he's missing me if he's not kissing me
And when he looks at me his brown eyes tells his soul

He looks at me and his brown eyes tell his soul

~peRihaL naMa~

dulu kat sekolah..

cikgu selalu bising..
nama panjang sangat..
macam-macam ejaan..
ade double vowel..
ader huruf yg double..

tp..

nanti bile aku jadi cikgu..

aku tak leh marah kat anak murid aku..
aku tak leh marah diorang kalau nama diorang panjang..
aku tak leh marah diorang kalau ejaan nama diorang ade double vowel..
aku tak leh marah diorang kalau ejaan nama diorang ade huruf yg double..

sebabnyer?

name aku pon panjang..
ader 20 huruf campur nama bapak aku..
itu aku tak campur binti..
name aku bile dieja ade double vowel..
nama aku bile dieja lagi ade huruf yg double..

nampaknye..

aku akan jadi cikgu yang baik..
sbb aku takkan marah anak murid aku kalau nama diorang panjang..
kalau ejaan nama diorang ade double vowel..
kalau ejaan nama diorang ade huruf yg double..

mmg aku tak boleh nk marah..

.:moNey-2:.

finally, today!! after emotions have been poured out in the last entry about having no money, surviving under 30 pound for about 3 weeks, and having to pay ur holiday and monthly phone bills and also ur kindhearted friends, the numbers in the account banks have finally change..no more tens and units in the acoount..the numbers galloped that my eyes popped out form the socket and i screamed at the numbers..Alhamdulillah..the stucked-somewhere-money has safely arrived in my account.. :-D..*big grin*

.:moNey:.

money seems to be the biggest issue rite now.. its already the 9th of november and still there is no sign of allowance coming in..im currently trying my best to live under the 30 pound that i had since the last 2 weeks..it gets much harder when by the end of next week, you have got to pay the balance for one of ur holidays and also your monthly mobile phone bill..and that doesn't include the money that you have got to pay back to some of your friends who kindheartedly let you borrow some money to pay some things..*sigh*..by the time i get my allowance, one third of it will be spent on paying my debts..thank God i'm a royal mail christmas casual worker and starting working at the end of this month..at least i got some money coming not from the KPM..and hopefully royal mail doesn't delay the weekly paycheck..

sye rindu ayah~~

Butterfly Kisses by Bob Carlisle

There's two things I know for sure

She was sent here from heaven and she's daddy's little girl

As I drop to my knees by her bed at night

She talks to Jesus and I close my eyes

And I thank God for all the joy in my life

Oh but most of all

For butterfly kisses after bedtime prayer

Sticking little white flowers all up in her hair

"Walk beside the pony, daddy, it's my first ride"

"I know the cake looks funny, daddy, but I sure tried"

In all that I've done wrong

I must have done something right

To deserve a hug every morning and butterfly kisses at night

Sweet sixteen today

She looks like her momma, a little more everyday

One part woman the other part girl

To perfume and make-ups form ribbons and curls

Trying her wings out in the great big world

But I remember

Butterfly kisses after bedtime prayer

Sticking little white flowers all up in her hair

"You know how much I love you, daddy, but if you don't mind,

I'm only gonna kiss you on the cheek this time"

With all that I've done wrong

I must have done something right

To deserve her love every morning and butterfly kisses at night

All those precious time

Like the wind, the years go by

Precious butterfly

Spread your wings and fly

She'll change her name today

She'll make her promise and I'll give her away

Standing in the bride room just staring at her

She asked me what I'm thinking

And I said "I'm not sure,

I just feel like I'm losing my baby girl"

She leaned on me

Gave me butterfly kisses with her momma there

Sticking little white flowers all up in her hair

"Walk beside me, daddy, it's just about time"

"Does my wedding gown look pretty, daddy?"

"Daddy don't cry"

Oh with all that I've done wrong

I must have done something right

To deserve your love every morning and butterfly kisses

I just couldn't ask for more

Man, this is what love is

I know I gotta let her go

But I'll always remember

Every hug in the morning

And butterfly kisses at night...

Selamat Hari Raya..

Bersempena dgn hari dan bulan mulia ni, I would like to wish,

Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri

Maaf Zahir & Batin

to,

my family in sitiawan: ayah, mama, along, aja and adek..

my grandparents: atok & tok cik in muar

my godfamily: uncle tamjis, auntie kiah, azhar, abg azrie, kak mia, haziq and alya..

my uncles and aunties: pak ngah n mak ngah, pak yid n acik ita, uncle md noor n achik norli, pak cu n mak cu

my cousins: nana, adol, fahmi, luqman, muaz, sue, farha, harith, iliya, syafiqa, noreen n adam..

my frenz in malaysia, australia, new zealand and other parts of the world..

ayah, mama, along, aja n adek,
Sorry i cant be with you this year..it is now me who made the whole celebration incomplete..it was jaja's the last time..we'll be together again after next year..i promise..alin mintak ampun dari hujung rambut ke hujung kaki..halal kan makan minum alin yer..

tagged by Syada- 5 Dream Vocations~

I have just visited Syada's blog..and from my interpretation, those who read her latest entry is tagged..So here are my 5 Dream Vocations~~

1. A Teacher - believe it or not, when i was 6 or 7, i remembered telling my mom that i wanted to be a teacher just like her.. and i still remembered how i used to take some chalks from school, use the old books and play cikgu-cikgu with my sister..we would use the cupboard as our blackboard, teach Math and BM and have soft toys as our students..then we would have times where we just sat at a table and started marking the used books..and after 13-14 years, here i am..on my way of becoming a teacher..never thought that it would be a dream-vocation-come-true..sort of..hahahaha..
2. A Dentist - this was my dream vocation for years..i really thought that i will be able to be one..my mum thought being a dentist suits me very much because i have nicely structured teeth (as compared to my other siblings) and i just love to fiddle with tools..i remembered, every year, my class teacher ask me about my ambitions and i would say dentist..and when i went through form 4 and form 5, i just knew..that dream wont come true..reason: exam results yg tak brape nak best..
3. A Civil Engineer - realising that my dream of becoming a dentist would not come true, i started to became fascinated with the law of physics..big and tall building amazed me very much..i wanted to be those people who met at a site, with the safety helmet firmly on my head, and talk while holding the big white paper and pointing to the building that is being built..but again..this dream did not come true either and the reason is, same as the above..
4. A Model - this was a childhood dream vocation for my sisters and i..funny kan..i dont know why and i still could not figure out why did we really wanted to become a model back then..this would never come true i supposed..with a figure like this.. ;-)
5. A Housewife - i was watching an advertisement when i decided i wanted to become one..i was about 5 at that time..i thought it would be easy..just sit at home, wave goodbye to your husband when he goes to work, laze around, wait for him at the door when he comes back from work and cook dinner..yeah, dream on..that would never be the life of a housewife..

well, that's my dream vocations..with one dream on its way of becoming true..and i wont waste that dream and become the teacher who changes so many lives..as Henry Adams says,

"A teacher effects eternity; he can never tell where his influence stops"

let's paarrttteeeyyyy..

two guys came knocking at the door..
one of them was shouting things i couldnt really understand..
and another one was holding an umbrella..
as i opened the door, the one shouting *terdiam* and said, 'ooohhhh..'
they didnt expect that malaysians r living in the house and we dont party like they do..
smell of liquor *semerbak menusuk hidung la kan*..
then the one holding the umbrella, agak kiut juga, malu- malu said,

'Hi there,

House 2 is having a party..

if you would like to join us and have some fun..

meet the people living in the village..

you are welcome to join us..

rite, see u..

cheers!!'

-->giler ker aper nk aku join korang party..ntah2 haper2 laaa..party jer reti..main jauh-jauh la weeihhh..

kad raya~

mari kite sambung entry yang revolve around the word raya..
tajuk kali ini:

~Kad Raya~

Kesuntukan masa made me buy some kad raya from ebay..
Tp smpi skrang x smpi2 lagi kad tuh..
dah 5 hari dah..
i need to contact the seller..
Addeeeiihhh..

Tp ader juga kad yang beli kat ebay tp dah smpi dah..
Separuh dah tulis nk hantar..
Separuh lagi blom..
Kena pikir elok2 nk anta kat sape..
Takut x cukup kad..

Ohh yer
Just today I received my first kad raya from Malaysia..
Thanks ye..
Really appreciate it..

.:My OST:.

IF YOUR LIFE WAS A MOVIE, WHAT WOULD THE SOUNDTRACK BE?

So, here's how it works:
1. Open your library (iTunes, Winamp, MediaPlayer, iPod, etc)
2. Put it on shuffle
3. Press play
4. For every question, type the song that's playing
5. When you go to a new question, press the nextbutton

Opening Credits: + Rindu Padanya - Camelia

Waking Up: + Everytime - Britney Spears

First Day At School: + Bukan Niatku - Saleem

Falling In Love: + My Love Remix - Amr Diab feat Westlife

Fight Song: + Puasa & Raya - Senario

Breaking Up: + Someone to Love - Jon B feat Babyface

Prom: + Boom! - System of a Down

Life's OK: + Fa Ru Xue - Jay Chou

Mental Breakdown: + Para Para Sakura - Aaron Kwok

Driving: + Semalam Hari Iniku - Mawi

Flashback: + Shut Up - Simple Plan

Getting Back Together: + Flavour of the Week - American HiFi

Wedding: + Butuh Waktu - Radja

Birth of Child: + Balada Hati - KRU

Final Battle: + Serangga Pilihan - Wolfgang Crew

Death Scene: + Wo De Di Pan - Jay Chou

Funeral Song: + Selamat Berhari Raya - Rahimah Rahim

End Credits: + Berhenti Berharap - Sheila On 7



-->Macam x kena jer the soundtrack of my life nih..

beans?

A teacher asked her class for sentences using the word 'beans'..

"My father grows beans," said one student.

"My father cooks beans," said another.

Then a third spoke up, "We are all human beans."


Thanks Dephy..

_______________________________________________

Cikgu2 sumer..
ni la tugas kiter balik mesia nnt..
jgn bg murid buat mistake cam ni lagi..

~gambar raya~

bersempena dgn hari raya yang bakal menjelma..
entry2 yg akan dipost revolve around the word 'raya'..
so, sebagai permulaannya..


~GAMBAR RAYA~

yesterday, buat shooting gambar raya versi house 20..
setelah banyak gambar yg disnap dan banyak pose yg telah dilakukan..
dan juga setelah kami lost count brape kali betulkan tudung sebab angin bertiup kencang..
kami membuat kesimpulan..
yg ni gambar fav kitorang..

raya~raya~

Seminggu lebih dah puase kat UK nie..
9 days to be exact..
Ader lah sket persiapan raya yang telah dibuat..
Antaranya:

• suruh mama ngan ayah pos kuih raya..
• amik gambar raya tuk anta kat utusan/berita harian..versi house 20..
• ader juga gambar yang dah publish kat utusan online..versi cohort 2 marjon..
• baju raya dah ader..
• satu jenis kuih raya dah buat dah..biskut cornflake..
• nasi impit segera pon dah ader..
• kacang nak buat sambal kacang pon dah beli..
• kad raye dah tulis..tp blom hanta lagi..
• tudung raya pon dah ade..
• lagu raya pon dah download..ader 50 lagu kesemuanya..
• takbir raya pon dah dload..siap ader 2 version..yang biase ngan yang mawi..

aper lagi yer yang blom?

kami guru malaysia~~

i was browsing the youtube website when i came across this..

enjoy~~

Cures for Love: Which One?

*referring to the previous entry..

Wendy Cope said that there are two cures for love.. I kinda believe her actually.. However, there are a few questions worth thinking about..

• Which one do you think is easier to be done?
• Which one do you think has less risk?
• Which one do you think is much more painful than the other?
• Which one do you think will make you happy?

Come to think of it.. I dont think one way is easier than the other.. Or that the one way that we picked will not be hurting us anymore and we live happily.. Both ways have its own pros and cons.. I dont know what they are until I myself came to a junction of life and i need to decide which one of the two is best for me..

"I came to know him about a year ago.. About a few months of knowing him, he told me he has a gf.. I dont mind.. I thought that i really want to be friends with him.. And so i have to make the big decision: Wendy Cope's Cure No 1 or Cure No 2..

Without thinking much, I opted for Cure No 2.. Yes, it was fun at the beginning.. I was happy.. I thought that by being friends, he will soon realise how cool and laid-back I am that he will come running back to me.. However, being happy and fun was only temporary.. The happiness and fun did not last long.. I felt hurt.. I felt like being stabbed by a big sharp knife each and everytime he mentioned about her.. I felt torn when he did things that no one would accept.. But, I was in denial.. I keep on telling myself that it was OK.. And it's gonna be OK.. I told myself that this will end sooner or later.. He wont do it again.. And i kept denying myself.. Even my mom could not wake me up from the denial.. Sorry Maa..

About 10 weeks ago, I came to my senses..I became tired of living my life in denial.. Friends woke me up from my dream.. I snapped back to reality.. I abandoned Cure No 2, looked for strength and courage and went after Cure No 1.. It was not easy at the beginning.. I was tempted to dial his number and talked like we used to.. But, I have to be strong.. I cant live in denial again.. After 10 weeks of not-calling-him-during-the-weekends, I became much stronger.. I realised that I am not at loss of anything, not even him and not even one thing.. I accept that this is what life has got to offer and I accept the fact that this is what God has arranged for me and this is what is best for me.."

I am now happy that i left Cure No 2 and went after Cure No 1.. But I am not saying that Cure No 1 is way better than the other.. However, in my case, it is better that the other.. Only after I went through both cures for love.. ;-)


*Dear friends (you know who you are),
Thanks for bringing me back to reality and giving me the courage and strength that I needed very much to go through this period of life..Thanks..I heart you..

need cure?

Two Cures for Love:

1. Don't see him. Don't phone or write a letter.
2. The easy way: get to know him better.

Wendy Cope

~sye sahur tadi..~

Kellogg's Cornflakes

+

Choco Hoops

+

Whole Milk

+

Strawberries

p/s: Baru sye paham kenapa iklan oat ngan cornflake suke bubuh strawberry skali..sedap rupenyer..~~

.:choc chip cookies chep wan's:.

BAHAN
1 CAWAN MENTEGA TANPA GARAM
1 SUDU ESEN VANILLA
1 CAWAN GULA HALUS
1/2 CAWAN GULA GULA PERANG GELAP
1 BIJI TELUR
1/3 CAWAN KOKO TAWAR SERBUK
2 SUDU BASAR SUSU SEGAR
1 3/4 CAWAN TEPUNG GANDUM SERBAGUNA
1/4 SUDU TEH SODA PENAIK
1 CAWAN KACANG PECAN ATAU WALNUT DICINCANG
70 GRAM KURMA DICINCANG
1 CAWAN CIP COKLAT SEPARUH MANIS

CARAPUKUL
Mentega dan gula dipukul hingga gebu.
Kemudian, Sambil kacau perlahan masukkan telur, esen, koko, susu, tepung, penaik.
Last sekali masukkan kacang, kurma and choc chip.



-->Ni resipi mak cik sye yg bagi..Sye pn tak try lg..Tp..biskut nie sumer orang nyer fav choc chip cookies biler balik kg..

.:tibanya ramadhan:.

All of us, the muslims in Plymouth, will start fasting tomoro (it's already 1 Ramadhan at the moment of typing)..

In conjunction with ketibaan Ramadhan, i would like to wish each and everyone of u,

'Selamat Berpuasa'

'Selamat Menyambut Ketibaan Ramadhan'

'Semoga Ramadhan tahun ini lebih baik dari yang lepas2'

I would also like to apologise for any wrongdoing in the past. Minta maaf, semua.

Halalkan segala makan minum saya ye.

..mimpi post-tag..

as we all know, i'm one of nisa's tag victim..and so i did the ciri-ciri lelaki idaman..which has actually made me feel that i wanna get married rite away to my lelaki idaman..but.. what happened last nite was that i dreamt of some ular..people say that if u dream of kena patuk ular, then ader orang nak masuk meminang..but all the ular in my dream did not patuk me or whatsoever..they stayed in a plastic bag which i then cover the plastic bag with a tudung periuk..

so the question is, apekah ader orang nak masuk meminang? (because i dreamt of ular)..ataupun it was just a normal dream? (since the ular did not patuk me at all)..

tp, cam klaka jugak klu ader orang nk masuk minang..hahahahaha..

*rolling on the floor laughing*

kah kah kah kah kah kah~~~~~~

~lelaki idaman~

yer cik nisa..
i tulis ni as a kesinambungan to ur entry in ur blog...


~Lelaki Idaman Saya~

1. solat 5 waktu..sye x kesah sgt psl solat sunat tuh..yg WAJIB tu penting..tp..klu diye wat solat sunat lagilah extra point~~

2. diye rajin ajak sye puasa sunat~~

3. diye rajin gak ajak solat jemaah..~

4. seharusnyer juga diyer klaka..sense of humour is vital!!

5. diye menerima sye seadanya..oohhhhhh~~

6. dr segi fizikalnyer..tak nak ler kurus sgt...dan juge tak nak la gemok..nak yang ala2~ gendut jerrr..

7. he's good at what he's at..~~

8. main sports!!! utk mengisi masa lapang...

9. relaks~ sabor~ caring..

10. yang mahukan anak sebagai penyeri kluarge...~~ahaks!!

.:something to think about:.

this is something that i found on a website and it reflects where i stand rite now..

i extremely wanna share this with the readers of my blog..

hoping that we gain something from it..

;D

JUST FRIENDS ?

By Susan Nikaido

If my sources are correct, the following scenario is played out frequently among the world of singles. It happens on both sides of the gender line, but allow me to talk about it from my own female perspective. A man meets a woman and begins to show interest in her. He asks her to spend time with him on a regular basis: hiking, biking, watching video. He calls her at least once a week just to talk. He begins telling her about the deeper things in his heart and invites her to share at this level as well. He sends her mushy "friendship" cards and

tells her that she means a great deal to him. He may become a little affectionate:
the hugs begin to linger.

The relationship has been defined as friendship, if it has been defined at all. But after all this special attention,the woman is definitely feeling more. So she asks the guy what's going on. To her surprise, he does a quick about-face. He insists they are just friends. After that, he avoids her, leaving her hurt and bewildered. She feels rejected - she has lost not only a romantic interest (she thought) but worse, a close and trusted friend. And she feels stupid.

Did she really misread all those signals?

After I experienced this as a single woman, I asked a friend my friend "Joel" to help me understand why guys do this.

After I told him my woeful tale, he said, "I did that to somebody once."

"What? Why would you ever do such a thing?" I asked.

"We were getting too close, and it scared me," he said.

This helped me understand why the "just friends" syndrome is so widespread. A guy wants to get to know a girl, but without the pressure of dating. So he spends a lot of time with her, treating her in many ways like a girlfriend but defining the relationship as friends. This way, if it begins to look like there's no future in the relationship, or he's not ready to "get serious," he can back away with no messy break up.

It sounds like a nice arrangement - for the guy. But that approach can be a problem for the woman. If a man tells a woman he just wants to "be friends" but he treats her as if it's more than friendship, she will believe his behaviour instead of his words. It sets her up for a big disappointment. Or if he invokes the "just friends" mantra after being asked about the nature of the relationship, but then promptly begins to distance himself from the friendship, again, his actions do not match his words.

He may think he's sparing her feelings by avoiding a break up. But by defining the relationship as a friendship, he hurts her even more deeply when he disappears. A dating relationship comes with certain risks. But she expects a friendship - especially such a close one - to continue. Think about it this way:

A broken dating relationship says only, "I don't want to marry you";

a broken friendship says to her, "I don't want/value you on any level."

Taking a woman down this path violates two principles.
First, it's dishonest.

Someone once said that it was the way of the World -not of a godly man - to say "yes, yes" and "no, no" in the same breath.

A man of integrity will call a relationship what it is.

Second, it is not kind or loving.

The "just friends" approach may be safer for the guy, but it is harmful to the woman. In effect, he is asking her for the rewards of a dating relationship

- companionship, emotional intimacy, even affection -

without the responsibility. He is playing with her heart, and her heart will probably get broken. But what if a guy does only want to be friends - or wants to develop a friendship before he decides to date? It's pretty simpleHe just treats the woman like all his other friends. He doesn't spend more time with her or call her more often than he does his other friends. He usually invites other people along when he get together with her. He doesn't pick up the tab when just the two of them go out. He avoids compliments that might communicate she is "special" to him.

He lets her know he spends time with other women.

He's extremely careful about showing any physical affection - even playful shoves or hugs. If, after getting to know her from a safe emotional distance, he wants a deeper relationship, he tells her that he wants to date her. What if you are not thinking about is more than friendship, but she asks about your intentions? Tell her you appreciate her friendship, but be honest about where you are. Above all, though it may be awkward for a while, continue to be her friend.

Years ago, I began to be attracted to a male friend. Though I hadn't really been getting any signals that he wasinterested in me, I knew it would help settle my emotions to hear it from him. I asked. He affirmed me as a person but told me gently - but clearly - that he thought of me only as a friend and then he did a wonderful thing. He kept being my friend. Though it hurt a little to learn I wasn't attractive to him in that way, it helped to know he still valued me and wanted me around. This was nearly 15 years ago, and though we have both moved to different states and married, we are friends to this day.

Women can be great friends.

But guys, unless you are ready for a dating relationship, please be careful to treat us

"as sisters, with absolute purity",
not as girlfriends, nor as something in between.

..giants invasion..

on the 16th of september 2006,

a bunch of beautiful and happy giants have invaded babbacombe model village, torquay..

and not even one living thing was hurt during the invasion..

the beautiful and happy teacher-going-to-be-giants even took some nice pictures of themselves..

of torquay n teluk batik..

dari kiri: leleng, wani, alin, ina, ejat

tiada dlm gambar: tiqah-->jurukamera..

yesterday, we (ejat, leleng, tiqah, ina, wani n myself) went to torquay..it was wonderful..it's been months since i last wiggled my toes in the salty sea water..of course, it was exciting and the scenery was beautiful..when i was walking by the road..it even felt like i was walking in Lumut..each one of us kept on saying.. wahhh..bestnyer..lama dah tak mandi laut.. except for ejat who refused to get her feet into the water because..mak ejat kater jangan main air..ni tempat orang..hehe..and i kept mentioned how refreshing it feels in the water and how i miss teluk batik..

talking about teluk batik..i cant help but being disappointed with the gathering of mat rempit in teluk batik a few weeks ago by putera umno..i dont mind the gathering..i know that they did help some of the villagers..but what made me angry and kecewa is the fact that the mat rempit misbehaved in someone's peaceful town and my fav place to hang out in Lumut..some of them were caught drunk and even slept together(women and men) in a hotel..and then there was another story about how they berkubang in the kolam masjid..hello??!!! cant u even think??!! tu masjid laa..and the water in the kolam is used untuk bersuci..why must u do that??!!! u have the whole teluk batik..berkubang la kat teluk batik tu!! BUDUS!!

i believe, what the mat rempit have done has given teluk batik a bad impression..i think whenever i mention teluk batik to someone who hasnt been there, he or she will associate teluk batik with the gathering of mat rempit and their attitude.. people will not associate teluk batik with its nice beach or the bukit yang tinggi on the way to teluk batik tu..that's sad..

sedey kan nisa, tiqah..orang wat fav place kiter jadik camtu..

~torquay~

selasa bersama steve ansell..

merujuk kepada previous post:

yer!!
mmg cuti nk habis dah..
tp kenapa nex week kelas ader hr selasa jer..
lps tu hr rabu ader meeting ngan english language nyer student..
itu jer..
macam cuti lagi jer..



~~alhamdulillah...yeay!!~~

cuti? habis dah~~

hr nie 15 september..
lg 3 hr..
tiba lah 18 september..
cuti pon habis..
maka kenalah bangun awal utk ke kelas..
chaiyyookkkk!!
bhhassyyaaa!!
aja~aja~

..sausage n wedges..

while waiting for the sausages and wedges in the oven..

WHAT DO YOU RESPOND WHEN PEOPLETELL/ASK YOU:

WHY ARE YOU ALWAYS LIKE THAT?

A: suke ati la..abes tu apsal ko slalu cam tu?

I JUST REALIZED NOW THAT I LOVE YOU

A: waktu aku nk kat ko, ko tanak..skunk ko sebok nk plak..--> emo lak..hehhe..

LEAVE HIM//HER ALREADY. YOULL BE MUCHMORE HAPPY WITH ME

A: orang cakap tanak tu tanak laa...

COME ON. SMILE. YOURE CUTE WHEN YOUDO THAT

A: hik hik hik..mekaseyy..

PLEASE DO MY MATH HOMEWORK TOO

A: i x reti math2 nie...

WHO DO YOU HAVE A CRUSH ON? ME, RIGHT?

A: aper u nie? x reti2 lg ker?

I AM SO BLESSED TO HAVE SOMEONE LIKEYOU

A: i know!!!!

WHY DOES MONDAY COME BEFORETUESDAY?

A: why does tuesday comes before wednesday?

I HAVE TWO TICKETS TO THE LINKIN PARKCONCERT. WANNA COME WITH ME?

A: i wanna heal..i wanna feel..like im close tosomething real...--> truskan menyanyi lagu linkinpark..

YOU ARE ONE OF THE MOST SPECIALPEOPLE IN MY LIFE. DID YOU KNOW THAT?

A: ohh skunk ko kater aku spesel laaa...dulu kopandang aku seblah mate jer...-->emo lagi..

I THINK IM FALLING FOR YOU
A: let us fall together...ewwwahhhh...

I CANT SMILE WITHOUT YOU

A: eleh..sat lg nmpk pompuan lain reti la ko senyum kan..

THANK YOU FOR EVERYTHING, BUT YOU JUSTARENT HIM//HER

A: of course la kan.. i am me..klu tak nk tu dahla..bley blah..

NOTHING

A: aper nothing2???!!

WHATS YOUR MOBILE NUMBER?

A: i'll give u mine if u give me urs..wakakakakka...

CAN I HAVE THIS DANCE

A: yer kot..tp i tak reti laaa..

MAY I COURT YOU

A: klu nk ngorat..ngorat jer la..ni tanyer2 lak..awkpemalu ker?

DO YOU STILL LOVE HIM//HER TIL NOW

A: ntah..sye pon tak tau...

YOU WERE EVERYTHING, EVERYTHING IWANTED

A: skunk ni ko everything2 ngan aku la kan..dulutu..aku nothing la kan..

WHEN WILL I GET YOUR SWEET YES

A: when the time comes...

why?

why do all my answers are emo-ish?

~sigh~

sye rindu~~

~atok~

~nenek~

td sye call mama..

mama kater atok ngan nenek ader kat KL kat umah pak cu..

sye rse mcm nk ckp ngan atok ngan nenek..

jadinyer..

sayer pon tepon umah pak cu..

nenek kate..

nenek datang KL bawak buah..

ader buah pulasan..

ader buah langsat..

nenek kater lagi..

makan ramai2..

makan ramai2 mmg best..

ader roti..ader buah...

nenek kater lagi..

tak leh makan banyak..

nnt gemok...

tak mau gemok macam alin...

lepas tu cakap ngan atok pulak..

atok kater..

atok tgh rehat2 kat rumah pak cu..

makan2..

atok tanyer...

tengah buat aper?

klu dah cuti knape x balik?

atok pesan..

klu cuti 3 bulan..balik la malaysia..

pastu atok pesan lagi..

jangan makan banyak sangat...

biar kurus sket...

lepas tu cakap ngan nenek balik..

cerite kat nenek hr tu masak nasi beriyani..

nenek puji..

iyer..pandainyer diyer masak..

nenek tanyer..

masak utk brape orang?

nenek puji lagi..

pandainyer diyer masak utk ramai2..

lepas tu cakap ngan pak cu pulak..

pak cu ckp..

td sumer orang ader..

achik norli pon ader jugak..

pak cu ckp lagi.

atok bawak ikan fresh ngan buah...

ikan merah...

ikan tu masak kari..

lepas tu skarang ni sye rse rindu kat umah..

sye rse homesick..~~

sye rindu kat atok ngan nenek sye..

sye rindu lawak atok sye..

sye rindu nk main teka teki ngan atok ngan nenek..

sye rindukan gelak ketawa mereka..

sye rindu nk buat atok ngan nenek gelak...

the first one...

hapily dedicating the first entry to my frenz all over the world..

songs are always composed in appreciation of the people you have around you..but never did i realise that rock songs also talk about friendship..i only found out about it when i was surfing the net looking for quotations on friendship that i encountered a site which posted excerpts of lyrics on friendship..i guess friendship is so universal that it can be shared and appreciated in any genre of music..and im gonna share the lyrical friendship quotations with u...

"When I'm with you I feel like I could die and that would be alright, alright."

- Third Eye Blind

"I'll lean on you and you lean on me and we'll be okay."

- Dave Matthews Band

"Best friends just won't leave your side"

-Blink182

"Hey my friend, I see your eyes are troubled, care to share your time with me?"

- Dave Matthews Band

"We've gone our own ways and I know its for the best, but sometimes I wonder will I ever have a friend like you again?"

-Blink 182

"See you and me have a better time than most can dream of,

better than the best, so we can pull on through,

whatever tears at us, whatever holds us down,

and if nothing can be done,

we'll make the best of what's around."

-Dave Matthews Band

"Every now and then we find a special friend,

who never lets us down, who understands it all,

reaches out each time you fall,

you're the best friend that I've found."

-Jordan Hill - "Remember Me This Way"

"Even if we never talk again after tonight,

please remember that I am forever changed by who you are and what you meant to me"

-Chasing Amy

"Here's to the nights we felt alive

Here's to the tears you knew you'd cry

Here's to goodbye

Tomorrow's gonna come too soon"

- Eve 6

"And the days went by like paper in the wind.

Everything changed, then changed again.

It's hard to find a friend. It's hard to find a friend."

- Tom Petty

dear friends,

u r the treasure that ive found..

and im not going to let u go..

thanks for being there when i needed u the most..

love u guys..